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supersly2004 50 M
9  Articles
is it possible to meet .............................   10/25/2004

hi all, does anyone think its ever possible to meet your dream person, on this site??? can there ever be trust, faithfulness, love......i'm very curious to know.... Where would you tell friends, and family...you met?? Ladies, will you trust a guy, who sleeps with lots of women on the site, you included....could you then form a loving n trusting relationship..?? Same ...


4 Comments, 225 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
why is it so hard to meet someone honest   10/25/2004

ive been on here for 2 months . and was wondering why is it so hard to find someone honest .


4 Comments, 10 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
keeping your lover   10/24/2004

It, s really easy what it take, s to get your lover is what it take, s to keep them. If you wine and dine them then don, t stop just because you have been together for a while. You still need to let them know you really still rock my world. I seen to many that once they get together for a while all of the spark, s are gone you have to keep it going. If not then you or your lover will look ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 30 Votes ,7.46 Score
rm_shezamystry 66 F
8  Articles
patience time   10/22/2004

Ok, He wants to see me. He is adorable and thoughtful. He is so funny and charming. Then He gets tired and stops stroking my hair. He stops letting me know He wants me there. <br> Is He afraid i will think we will scene/make love/ or whatever and does He have to shut down to show me i should not hope (for all time or even that night)? Do i stay and just massage His feet, or is ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 35 Votes ,7.11 Score
Hmm really   10/16/2004

What do women really want in a relationship?


0 Comments, 48 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
ounvrno 55 M
1  Article
Getting over the past   10/12/2004

I recently clued my girlfriend into what my sexual past was like. i was a swinger and she feels that because I enjoyed it I may not be satisfied with just her. I tell her repeatedly to watch my actions to see if I'm pleased, which I am completely but she still has this doubt that I can settle for one when i can have many. What should I do?


0 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
how can i get my relationship back together   10/11/2004

my relationship with my wife is falling apart .what way should i go and how should i do it,please give me some pointers,i would love to find out.


1 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
sorry guys we get a lot of mail   10/10/2004

i would like to reply to the gentleman who said he thought women who dont respond early to offers of meeting in person were only looking for attention. you are right. we do want attention. isnt a big reason for wanting to have sex with another person to get someone to pay a little bit of attention to us? we all can do the physical part of achieving orgasm on our own. someone else being there ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
I'm a first timer!!   10/6/2004

I am a first timer user of this service and i am interested to know if it really works. My friends say its just a con. So im asking u the users to prove my friends wrong and hopefully open my eyes to what this service can really deliver!!


2 Comments, 24 Views, 29 Votes ,5.15 Score
is trust really wat makes a relationship last?   10/5/2004

i was in a 2 yr relationship and i didnt trust my man 4 shit cuz he cheated but i still love him and i still wanna be with him is it cuz trust doesnt matter or cuz im blind?


2 Comments, 21 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
rm_frant17 41 M
2  Articles
Having an Affair   9/29/2004

Is it really that bad if you cheat on someone and they never find out???


2 Comments, 29 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
How do you stay with the same girl forever?   9/28/2004

Me and my girl have been together for about 7 years or so and recently I can't help looking more at other women. I have tried but can't. Any suggestions?


1 Comments, 64 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Talking , Conversation & Stress in a Relationship   9/27/2004

I am a true believer that when it comes to building a great relationship that your partner & yourself needs to communicate to each other. There are alot of broken relationships due to noncommunication. Let's see some of the examples of when you are in a relationship you need to tell your partner about your day, about your feelings & just anything that you think needs to be brought up. Maybe ...


2 Comments, 196 Views, 34 Votes ,8.36 Score
Re: Sleep with a guy on the first date   9/16/2004

My opinion: <br> If you've done enough research into his background and feel safe enough to sleep enough with him, sweetie, it's YOUR sex life, not someone else's. GO TO BED WITH HIM! If you're really concerned about how or what he feels about you, ask him. If he's a liar or a jerk, wouldn't you already have had a hint? (You just said you've done your homework & felt OK ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 28 Votes ,7.96 Score
rm_tightnkinky 41 F
3  Articles
Sleep with a guy on the first date or not?   9/14/2004

I have been on this site for six months or so and i have meet quite a few men. I will be honest and say that i have slept with most not all on the first meeting, but i do talk to them and get to know them thur emails and phone calls first before i even meet them. My question is; Is this a turn off for men to create a realationship later on? Why is it still ok for men to sleep with women on ...


0 Comments, 156 Views, 53 Votes ,9.22 Score
DandS43 49 C
1  Article
HELP! I know u've heard it before!   9/1/2004

My one night stand originally was just a guy to have sex with. My personality is hard to pinpoint... I am a hip-hop diva but I like Nascar and racing. So when this guy and I guy started to hit it off... I wanted to slow it down a ton. But, it wasn't goin to work that way. Over time we were there for each other and some of those times... it really felt nice. We were never ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 23 Votes ,6.40 Score
popcorn23 38 M
3  Articles
Ten things !!!   8/19/2004

Ten things I have learned from my cat..!! 1. Always be ready to play. Know how to recognize the playful look in the person you love, and immediately start playing. <br> 2. When you are happy to see someone, stretch your arms up to him or her and ask to be picked up. <br> 3. If the person you love forgets to feed you dinner, don't take it personally. Instead, run to ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 52 Votes ,8.28 Score
honey7228 43 F
1  Article
honesty is key. we all know that, and yet....   8/3/2004

When it comes to building a relationship(especially one where swinging is involved) honesty is key. If you don't have honesty you don't have anything. Everyone knows that. Still we all find ourselves questioning our partner as to there faithfullness. Questioning them and being questioned in return. We all start out promising honesty and truth to one another and despite our best ...


2 Comments, 40 Views, 22 Votes ,6.73 Score
rm_otcdrgs 57 M
4  Articles
Love or Lust: The Real Dilemma   7/19/2004

Welcome to the real question. For all of you individuals new to life, love and lust(sex) are not the same. <br> Sex is the release of energy, stress, excitement, wants, and desires the physical body needs. The touching, kissing, licking, sucking, and fucking which makes up sex. It is probably the most enjoyable excercise known to man/woman. Sex takes practice and patience to be ...


1 Comments, 44 Views, 64 Votes ,8.61 Score
Time & Friendship & Honesty!   7/18/2004

In building a relationship, friendship should be the first and main focus. Not only it takes away the stress of dating, but it builds a stronger foundation. Honesty is also very important, for both to know where they are going in the relationship at all times. If someone’s feelings changed, it is better to be honest than to lie. The truth may sometimes hurt but lies hurt even more ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 15 Votes ,6.04 Score
LifeLuvNLust 48 F
0  Articles
Still Learning!!!   7/8/2004

The other day I had my younger sister come over for a chin wag and a cuppa and while the were all outside playing we started talking. I could she was disturbed and need advice on somthing or other and usually its about sex or boy friends or she needs to have a bitch session about her current piece of meat ( the guy she is seeing ) or one of the girls... Well was I surprised when she ...


1 Comments, 123 Views, 24 Votes ,4.95 Score
armycowboyaz 42 M
1  Article
How to get out of an engagement?   6/12/2004

I met my current GF on this site and things were going great for a long time. We decided to get married after dating for only a few months, as soon as we agreed to get engaged she seemed to change into a total psycho. I want to break it off, but she has already transfered to a closer school and is getting out of her lease to move in with me. What can I do to let her know that I really ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
thicknpeachie 45 F
11  Articles
can it be   6/8/2004

i want to know can u find love on TengaSexo.com i mean if u click with someone and after a while or should i say is everybody on TengaSexo.com for sex connectionsor is anyone looking for more... i think some of us r looking for more but we should keep our eyes wide open be aware dont let ya guards down too soon


0 Comments, 23 Views, 15 Votes ,5.43 Score
Do you feel you can obtain a real relationship online?   5/29/2004

Do you feel you can obtain a real relationship online? Can someone really know a person good enough with someone they found online. Also, what's gonna make that person stop looking once you start a relationship?


1 Comments, 85 Views, 21 Votes ,6.34 Score
Be honest till you have to lie   5/28/2004

Honesty will take you very far noone can stand a lier


0 Comments, 18 Views, 21 Votes ,7.95 Score
WHITE WOMEN -- How to Fuck blackguys And Still Be Accepted....   5/19/2004

Love 2 meet white females that is scared to date or just fuck a blackman. The Idea is tempting to some --- So if think you want to fuck blackmen --here is some pointers. <br> <br> 1. Go to places where there is a mixed scene, 2. Don't be too obvious on what you want - dance with white guys too. 3 Mingle with other with chicks to get the low down. 4. Buy the ...


1 Comments, 89 Views, 68 Votes ,2.38 Score
sensualtemptress 46 F
1  Article
Sometimes, they don't get it   3/29/2004

Why is it that sometimes I tell my husband things and I know he hears me but he just blows me off? I don't get it. I know he's listening to me but he forgets it like the next 5 seconds. It's really irritating me and I have to tell him but I don't want to hurt his feelings. Any advice?


2 Comments, 21 Views, 16 Votes ,5.48 Score
Tinkawantsdaddy 49 F
12  Articles
Who said he or she doesn't respect a ?   3/22/2004

I know they do not need me to take part at this "discussion".Some of my customers are prostitudes and naturally I had no idea what to expect but made an apointment anyways .The girls turned out to be real nice (i was no threat there anyways but that being nice was meant to be in general), funny -wow did I hear a bunch of stories and had laughing attacks...unbelievable.Their job isn't always ...


2 Comments, 89 Views, 37 Votes ,6.45 Score
rm_supotme1 43 M
3  Articles
Are You Really Done With Nothing?   2/21/2004

When times of loneliness, either you alone or with your friends sharing of experiences about girls became part of you...you think something special to be! Nah...or maybe you keep on daydreaming while seated center in youre classes...wetdreaming during the night while you are sleeping...Hah! You take a water after you woke up, "ihhh..it's to be nearest about me" . On your way ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 38 Votes ,0.17 Score
mattnewstar 45 M
2  Articles
love without lust   1/30/2004

My wife and I have been married for a few years now. We both care deeploy for each other. But, I have a much stronger sex drive than she has. I would like to explore, but am afraid of what she would do if I told her my plans. I think she would not like it, yet I am so frustrated. Any help appreciated


1 Comments, 33 Views, 28 Votes ,4.99 Score