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please respect the wishes of others 9/4/2006
i love the new instant messenger program provided by TengaSexo.com
but i find that people don't respect any of what you
have placed in your profile. i specifically ask for a certain
age group and am bombarded daily by people who do not fit
my requirements. how hard is it to respect the wishes of
others. why would you impose yourself on someone only to
be rejected. is it that some of you like the ...
1 Comments, 77 Views,
13 Votes
,5.83 Score
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to all of you "couples" with the invisible wives 9/1/2006
i just want to say no thank you. i've had enough of the
fake couples. the ones where the wife had surgery and no
longer plays or she says it's ok for me to play along
because she has her friends too even though their profile
states in bold letters WE DO NOT PLAY ALONE.
i'm just grown tired of deceptive people. either you
are a couple or you aren't. now don't get me wrong
i'm not ...
5 Comments, 124 Views,
17 Votes
,6.52 Score
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When I say no I fee guilty!! 9/1/2006
Has this happened to any of you.. you write clearly on your
profile the age limit, the likes and dislikes and always
polite about your request and you still get people who do
not read the profiles!!! I am not the type to get angry but
it upsets me becz I am poilite and like to respond to anyone
who takes the time out of their busy day to wirte.. but come
on people as a standard memeber I ...
2 Comments, 122 Views,
14 Votes
,4.42 Score
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no matter how you try to be respectable....... 8/30/2006
it just doesn't work. i've found when you tell
a majority of the people thanks but we don't seem to
be interested in the same things but good luck on your search, "
they seem to get angry. i've tried the nice approach
and the not respond approach but it doesn't seem to
work. i've tried every thing i could think of but only
rudeness seems to work. one guy got upset because i politely ...
2 Comments, 56 Views,
8 Votes
,5.56 Score
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What is the nicest way to say no to someone 8/28/2006
I have in my profile cleary stating I am not into other race
but Latino or black but yet so many other people e-mail me
or IM me and I tell them I anit into it and they say am harsh
how cant I say it in a nicer way please let me know
Trina
0 Comments, 59 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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how do you say 8/25/2006
how do you tell someone you've met on here that you are
just that into them is there an easy way to let someone down
4 Comments, 117 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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PLEASE BE CLEAN!!!!! 8/17/2006
The other night we invited this girl we met on here (Her handle
will remain omitted) but lives within 50 miles of us. We
contacted her the usual way...first email, then phone
tag, then we webcammed a little. She is very attractive
and fit. Nice breasts, hard tummy...great butt...the
works. Well we made a date to meet last weekend (Saturday
Night) and she said "ok". We (Dan and  were
soo ...
8 Comments, 323 Views,
20 Votes
,7.34 Score
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Leading someone on 8/17/2006
I feel I have lead this girl on I know, which was something
I never set out to do.She txt's all the time and its starting
to turn into stalker territority.How do I tell her to leave
me alone without having to be really harsh?
1 Comments, 71 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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READING FIRST B4 U WRITE TO SOMEONE 8/16/2006
Can anyone tell me WHY ON EARTH folks half ass read your profiles????
If you've taken the time to add things you think folks
should know about you and what you want why in the DEVIL is
it that you STILL GET MAIL from people trying to CHANGE YOUR
MIND or giving you some IDIOTIC RESPONSE because you say
THANX but NO THANX!!!!
What GIVES??????!!!!!!
2 Comments, 31 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Getting out of a bad situation 8/7/2006
What would be the best way of getting around the question
of sex with someone you like, but not that well? I like sex
as much as the next person, but sometimes it's just
not there. there's got to be some kind of chemical reaction
going on. i want to feep this person as a friend. but this
sex thing always gets in the way.
2 Comments, 83 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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NO THANKS 8/7/2006
Ive been on here for a while now and I can relate to alot of
what I have read about having to say no thanks. I set my filter
to weed out the ones that I wouldnt be interested in so that
there are no hurt feelings. BUT, sometimes they DO slip
through the cracks and you get responses from someone thats
just NOT anything close to what your looking for. NOW, My
pet peeve here is that ALOT of ...
4 Comments, 108 Views,
10 Votes
,4.98 Score
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saying no 8/3/2006
its really hard too say no thanks to people when your a nice
person its really really hard
2 Comments, 65 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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Not taking No for and answer! 7/29/2006
Have you ever met a couple on here that just want take know
for an answer. We Did. One night anfter a long day we was taking
to a couple on our IM that we had gotten email from a couple
of time off of TengaSexo.com. After a few mins, the male of the couple
ask us to call him on the phone, So we did. While taking he
invited us over. We told him that we had been working all
and need a show and really ...
3 Comments, 195 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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no thanks 7/26/2006
how come when we put no single guys on our profile they still
email us a bunch and some of them are the same from when we
emailed back and said no thanks. does no thanks mean please
email us again i think not so please people if you get a no
thanks it means no thanks.
2 Comments, 53 Views,
7 Votes
,4.57 Score
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"Thanks But No Thanks" 7/13/2006
I think the best way to say "thanks, but no thanks"
is letting them know, up front, no games... no bull... just
go.
7 Comments, 173 Views,
10 Votes
,5.77 Score
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Jump in and get wet 7/10/2006
So my wife and I were cruising through the profiles and she
asked me a question that surprised me. We have been swinging
for a few years so her question seemd out of the blue to me.
Her question was "Do people really just meet and fuck?"
Now, if you have been swinging at all, you know that sometimes
you do and sometimes you don't. When we meet or interview
a new couple, we usually meet at a ...
2 Comments, 355 Views,
16 Votes
,4.60 Score
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What's up with the one line e-mails? 7/6/2006
I'm really getting very bored with the TengaSexo.com e-mails.
I hate not responding, but when a guy writes, "Hi,
your hot.. call me.. can't wait to meet" Why should
I even bother. Does he really believe a woman is going to
call him? I know nothing about him. He has no picture on his
profile then writes back stating "I knew you were
a fake and not real" If he is not going to take the time
to write ...
6 Comments, 279 Views,
22 Votes
,7.09 Score
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I just cant say no. 7/5/2006
I met a young lady 18 yrs old in Dec. we were in bed the 2nd day.
I really loved this young girl. About 3 weeks ago her best
friend called me and I just couldnt say no. I fuck her twice,
her friend found out and I regret it I should have just said
NO.
0 Comments, 181 Views,
8 Votes
,1.16 Score
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NO THANKS..........!!!!!!!! 7/4/2006
ya in the club you try dance with the finest women ther..an
she looks at you strange..its no thanks...
if a girl tells you meet her somewhere an you are standing
there 4 hours..its no thanks
if ya over a girls house tryna start sex convo, an she is
constantly changing the subject..its no thanks
if you tell a women you have a big dick b4 you meet her..then
wen she ...
2 Comments, 134 Views,
14 Votes
,0.90 Score
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Ladies, please respond to Emails 7/3/2006
When a guy emails you, you've certainly gotten his
attention. If you aren't interested, give him the
courtesy of a response indicating that. If a guy asked you
to dance in a club, would you just turn around and ignore
him, or would you at least give him an answer. That's
all we are asking for, is just a response. Yes is better of
course, but anything will do, even 'let me think about ...
6 Comments, 152 Views,
16 Votes
,3.27 Score
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Pic VsProfile 6/30/2006
Being new here, I have been quite overwhelmed by the large
number of responses I have gotten. However out of 45 messages
only 3 have bothered to read what im actually after and responded
to that. While flattered, why would people not check the
profile?? If they are not after the same thing, they are
not just going to jump up to meet the person who messages
them so why bother? Do they really ...
6 Comments, 244 Views,
15 Votes
,5.27 Score
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Hmmm 6/22/2006
Having this problem in my life. I have a stable relationship
for the last 1 and a half year. Thing is a couple of girls started
revolving around me and I didn't tell them I had a girlfriend,
for no reason I can think of but I didn't do it. What can
I do cuz telling them would hurt them...I guess.
1 Comments, 59 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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People who get mad 6/19/2006
Heres the story.I put some one on the hotlist.They email
me.I emailed them back.Then they sent another email saying"I
don't think you want us look at our profile again.We
are looking for a female so we can do each other while my husband
watches".I said"I did see your profile and
it says in the beggining we are looking for women, men, couples, group
ect...Not just women.Maybe you guys need ...
1 Comments, 240 Views,
11 Votes
,3.92 Score
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The best way to say no 6/15/2006
The road to Hell is paved with good intentions they say.
When knocking someone back, the best way is to just say No!
Dont add excuses ever, like not my type, or incredibly ignorant
things like race, age, earnings. All these things do is
compound the hurt and in some create complexes.
Just saying a stern no is best, and if pressed for why the
best recourse is because I ...
1 Comments, 63 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Best way 6/14/2006
Whats the best way to say no on this site. It seems I get lots
of emails even when I've told them I'm not interested.
1 Comments, 76 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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is it ok for a guy to say no 6/7/2006
sometimes when i come home from work and im tired or agitated
or just dont feel like having sex my girfrien gets pissed
is that ok for her to get pissed or am i being insensative
0 Comments, 30 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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courtesey 6/4/2006
Do you think more members should at least reply to an iniatial
contact from somebody
3 Comments, 91 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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how difficult is it for you?? 5/29/2006
tell me guys and gals...how do you say, "thanks, but
no thanks" to someone?? is it just that easy?
4 Comments, 201 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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A Kind Refusal 5/13/2006
Sometimes it can be difficult for people to let someone
down nicely. For example I found myself being hit on by a
gay man at a bar. I've never had a lot of exposure to gay
men, and I was at a loss as how to let him down easily. How is
a person supposed to know what the right thing to do is when
this sort of thing has never come up before?
1 Comments, 72 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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How can you grt it through to there head? 5/12/2006
I want to know why some guys just don't know when you
stop? I mean come on when a woman says no thanks or i am not
interested what does this tell the guy? Sometimes it like
it tells him to ask more and it really gets on my nerves after
a while and i am not a mean person but i go my limits...t
1 Comments, 36 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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