Hi, we are kinda new to this but we both know what we want. We have come to the conclusion that sex with others does not mean we don't love each other. It only means we have bodies that experience lust and that is no different than being hungry or sleepy. Just like being hungry and sleepy if you don't feed your hunger or get your rest then you will make yourself grouchy and irritable. When we are rested and fed and taken care of in the bed we are much happier with each other.

My Ideal Person Our ideal person is someone who is okay with who they are and is not looking to come between us as a couple. We play together or apart so you don't need to worry about having some alone time with one of us. We both share very well. It is rare that we are both attracted to the same person so the chances are that only one of us will want to play with you. And that is okay with us.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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