Hi Everyone - thanks for checking out my profile! I'm on here for the same reason you are, but at the end of the day I'd ideally like to meet people that I would naturally be friends with. The ideal situation would be to have AFFer's in my life that I can hang out with both in and outside the bedroom. I'll also start off by letting you know that I am in a LTR and that my partner has encouraged me to explore outside of our relationship. We have been together for a long time and we are currently in very different places sexually. I have a very high sex drive; she does not. I'm not looking to replace what I have; so let's be clear on that from the beginning. Other than that, I'm here for you :) [COLOR silver][/COLOR][B]Who[/B] am I: I'm a successful professional, educated and happy by nature. I tend to be the funny one in a group. I'm fast, clever, and can lighten most moods. I like to have fun and enjoy myself - a bit of a hedonist, I suppose. I'm easy going and very open minded. I'm clean, considerate, and view myself as being fairly classy. I'm well rounded (a little classical, a little hip-hop, a little rock 'n roll), have an athletic background (love to watch and participate in sports) and enjoy the outdoors as well as the "indoors". I'm getting into photography and love taking pictures. I try to live healthy and keep physically fit. I hope you'll do the same. [B]What[/B] I'm doing here: I end up spending too much of my time with the same people either working or outside of work. Mostly, I'd like to meet some new people for some new experiences. Yes, I'd prefer some adult oriented fun, but if we end up just hanging out and having a good time - I'm into that too. [B]Where[/B]: Anywhere - your place, my place, in public, in private - I'm really very flexible. [B]When[/B]: At times I can be busy (like most of us), but I'm pretty great about planning people into my weekdays or weekends. Maybe it's during the day, maybe after work or maybe a weekend exploration...we'll make it work =) [B]Why[/B]: See "what" above - I'm looking for friends, friends with bens, or just an NSA encounter. I'd really enjoy connecting with fun, energetic people!!! Just a final thought...please be clean both hygiene and d&d free. I certainly am and I want my friends to be too. Safe sex is the only way I play :) [COLOR red]WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.[/COLOR]

My Ideal Person Is someone whom I have an attraction to, and of course by this I mean a physical attraction. I'm a complete package kind of guy. Eyes are great, body - got to be good (take care of it, it's the only one you'll get), legs - great, butt, bust - yes of course; but I'm really looking at all of the above. I like seeing how everything works together to complete the picture. Be clean, take care of yourself (go ahead, have some vanity), and be comfortable with the skin you're in.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Latex, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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