I am a single white female - BBW - and been a member of the lifestyle for over 8 years now. Many people already know me on this site. And now it is finally time to narrow down the pool and find specifically what i am looking for. Please read this profile in it's entirety and only respond if you can meet every qualification.

My Ideal Person Now the list of what I am NOT looking for and what I am looking for.

As of October 2007 - my primary focus will be on finding a woman, but that does not mean i am only looking for women. I am looking for both - just harder to find good women so I am focusing on that.

Ladies -
The MUST HAVES:
1) Slender or athletic - yes I know I am a BBW but when it comes to women I am not attracted to other BBWs.
2) Lesbian or Bi - don't want straight girls "considering" their options
3) Fun loving and adventurous
4) Photos - please send me a current photo - face and fully length

The CAN'T HAVES:
1) BBWS - again - not attracted to other BBWs
2) LIARS - do not like them, can't stand them, won't be around them

Don't have a lot of requirements on women - typically I am attracted more to Slender blonds, but open to all hair colors. Oh and I typically enjoy smaller breasts - b or C - not a boob girl really.

Gentlemen - sorry your list is MUCH longer:
The MUST HAVES:
1) Slender or athletic - again yes I know I am a BBW but does not mean i have to be attracted to large men as well
2) Straight, Bi, or Gay - I am open to you all
3) Fun loving and adventurous
4) Education - you must have an education higher than a high school diloma
5) Job - you must be employed making more than $30,000 a year (i.e. you need to be able to pay your own way)
6) Hung - you must have a cock size larger than 6 inches - proof will be requested before we meet in person
7) Photos - you must provide the following photos - face, full length, and proof of size. And they must be current photos!

The CAN'T HAVES:
1) Body types - not attracted to large, ample men
2) LIARS - do not like them, can't stand them, won't be around them
3) SMALL DICKS - if you don't know the size of your dick - get a ruler and measure it! And send me proof of size
4) EDUCATION - if you do not have at least an associates degree - you will likely not be considered. Only a HS diploma will automatically not be answered. Current college students are acceptable, but proof may be required.
5) EROTIC PHOTOS - I do not mind erotic photos - but aside from proof of size, I will not reply to photos of cocks on initial contact or without requesting it. If you don't have the required photos posted, please attach to the email if you want it read.

Guys - educated, nice looking, employed, fun loving, open minded, adventurous guys are what I am looking for. It would also be great if you were more on the submissive end of things or orally fixated.

PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE JUST LOOKING FOR YOUR FIRST 3SOME WITH TWO WOMEN.

I will update these must haves and can't haves as I have time and things progress and as the field needs to be narrowed even more. I am VERY serious when i say SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY. I am not playing around on this profile. This is specifically for finding a specific man or woman to meet my higher needs.

I am looking for something more serious with this profile. Not a life partner, but a steady partner.

If you already know me on here, that is great. You know where I stand with most things. This is something new. So please don't reply unless you are serious too.

PLEASE NOTE I LIKELY WILL NOT REPLY TO ALL EMAILS SENT TO ME Please be serious.